Not Gay

A different look at heterosexuality in the twenty-first century
A straight white girl can kiss a girl, like it, and still call herself straight¿her boyfriend may even encourage her. But can straight white guys experience the same easy sexual fluidity, or would kissing a guy just mean that they are really gay? Not Gay thrusts deep into a world where straight guy-on-guy action is not a myth but a reality: there¿s fraternity and military hazing rituals, where new recruits are made to grab each other¿s penises and stick fingers up their fellow members¿ anuses; online personal ads, where straight men seek other straight men to masturbate with; and, last but not least, the long and clandestine history of straight men frequenting public restrooms for sexual encounters with other men. For Jane Ward, these sexual practices reveal a unique social space where straight white men can¿and do¿have sex with other straight white men; in fact, she argues, to do so reaffirms rather